Monday, September 21, 2020

sept 21 2020 venting lies

 VENTING WARNING...thou shalt not lie to sdp dogs    IT ISBAD ENOUGH WNHEN people lie in general  but when you lie to a dog... you are rotted to the core.  it happens when  a person figures  figures they are mentally more astute than the dog... which is not necessarioly true in th long run  dogs are more forgiving than people and will put up wioth a FEW LIES...  WITH PEOPLE- LIKE OLD ONES -- DISTRACTION  WORKS UNTIL INSTANT RECALL TAKES OVER...

? SHAKE A DISH OF FOOD TO CALL A PUP AND THEN NOT FEED THEM?????????

LET ME TRY.....


2020 9 21

Let's assume you have had a delivery of bricks and the truck put 10 pileS  of bricks on the RIGHT  side the driveway and you really need them on the LEFT   side ..

so you ask someone to come move PILE #1 of bricks for $50 and they come and they do it and it works well so you invite them back to move the second pile for another $50 and that worked so they come back from the third pile and you forgot to cash a check so they have to wait until you  ARE REMINDED  to pay the $50 .. then you invite them back for the 4th file AND  DON’T  pay them immediately … the question becomes how many more piles is that person going to transfer from right to left before they say to hell with it ----no ticky no shirty .. A REALLY NEEDY PERSON MIGHT HELP  LONGER  AND WORK THRU PILE #7  OR 8   BUT YOU AIN’T NEVER GOING TO GET TO PILE #10.

 

why would that be any different with dogs????  . getting into a kennel is NOT their favorite thing to do in the world but they happily get in and turn around and expect a cookie so it becomes a bargain "I got in there and where's my cookie"    .. I expect it it's always been that way and it's part of the bargain OF  behaving …  NOW IN AN EMERGENCY It might happen that you asked the dog to get in and have to run back to the barn together a cookie to give them so there is a delay but they do get their cookie for getting in the stall . to not give him a cookie even a delayed cookie makes for the situation I saw on Saturday where two dogs just had no intention of getting in the kennel and they were finally grabbed by the skin on their neck shoved in the kennel and no cookie then either … which described to me personally what they thought of the schover who had him by the neck…   that person is a liar -----why should I behave? 

 

So in our example with the bricks AND DOGS    a dog would forgive it a couple times well I don't think you'd get to pile #5 with a dog .

and I saw this with a different group of dogs and different people yesterday . object being at the 15 puppies into the nuthouse to practice going through the door flap . the person figuring I want those puppies to come to me so I will just shake this dish of dry dog food to get their attention and then shove 'em where I want them .. I watched from the driveway from my heated golf cart AKA Toyota car .. as she used the dry dog food and then never gave them their expected  piece of food .

 

HOW SHOULD SHE have done it??  ??????   SIT DOWN AND LET THE PUPS COME TO HER AT WHICH TIME .. JUST DIRECT THEM TO THE PERSON IN THE NUTT HOUSE WITH TEH TREATS.  IT MIGHT TAKLE A WHILE, BUT  WHAT IS THE RUSH????? 

BUT HAVING LIED BEFORE  TO THE PUPS… SHE CAN SIT TIL THE COWS COME HOME.. AND THE PUPS DON’T THINK  GOING TO SIT ON HER LAP IS ALL THAT MUCH FUN ANYWAY..  they will run to nanny pam  big time...   

AS FOT THE BARN DOGS… THE adults playing on  Puppy Hill if the person   had a leash in her back pocket and went out on the Hill with them they should come to her because they like her and she could slip a leash around their neck give them a great big Pat Pat Pat Pat and walk them off to a kennel ----they go in give him a cookie and go get the other dog who would probably be standing there waiting to get in the kennel and have a cookie ..instead of chase dog to grab that one by the neck shove 'em in shut the gate and the damage done by that  may take months to overcome because the flashback of being chased and grab by the neck could be reenacted in a parking lot if a dog gets loose ..

 

so when I decide I've had enough of this kind of  bulling behavior and let someone on staff  go… ..don't give me a lot of why should I ----  why did I ---do this and why did I do that--    because I can't answer you as I would like to but I have my reasons .   just like the dogs have their reasons .. because in the big turn of the wheel it's the dogs who get to decide a lot of things around here .

 

and if anyone thinks the dogs don't talk … then you're wasting your time watching them because you never will understand .

 

now if I am the one hired to move bricks…. at pile #3 of bricks… I might keep going if I had nothing else to do, but in my mind, would definitely be.. “gotta watch this person”    and 6 months later. .. I would have reduced  remembering the necessary details down to “ this guy’s a creep so be on your guard”  even if I can not remember why.

 

that is true of dogs..too…

i will not get into  political paralells.. too many bricks to pile up....

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GOOD MORNING, CARLENE,

 NALA HAS SETTLED IN AFTER GETTING FAMILIAR WITH OUR HOME AND HER NEW LIVING AND EATING ACCOMMODATIONS. SHE HAS EATEN COMPLETE

LUNCHES AND DINNERS (2 CUPS KIBBLE, ½ CAN WET) FOR THE PAST 9 DAYS WITH BREAKFAST BEING NIBBLED AT AND FINISHED ¾ OF THE TIME.

 HER POOS ARE CLOSE TO CYLENDARS CONSISTANTILY ONCE SHE BEGAN EATING.

 HER ATTITUTE IS A HAPPY ONE AND SHE IS DOING ZOOMIES AROUND HER ENCLOSED YARD. SHE IS NOW SLEEPING ON THE 2ND FLOOR WITH ME AFTER THE FIRST 2 NIGHTS IN THE FAMILY ROOM WITH ME JUST INCASE SHE NEEDED TO GO OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT.

 MY ONLY CONCERN OF THE MOMENT IS SHE IS LICKING HER AT HER REAR QUITE OFTEN BUT NOT SCOOTING ON THE GROUND WHICH WOULD INDICATE ANNAL GLAND TROUBLE. WILL KEEP WATCH ON THAT.

 PLEASE HAVE SOMEONE CONTACT ME AS TO BRINGING HER BACK FOR A WEIGH-IN AND GENERAL ASSESSMENT.

 WE ARE ENJOYING THIS SWEET GIRL AND HOPE SHE’LL CONTINUE EATING WELL.

 WITH BIG WOOFS,

 GAY AND NALA

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A little over a year ago, Norah and I received our Master of Social Work Degree from Boston University. She not only went to class with me each weekend and to work with me all week, but she also attended the ceremony with me! She was a little overwhelmed at times by all of my fellow graduates, but she was the consummate professional throughout! Presently, we are a therapy team for adults living with substance abuse disorders-- I provide the therapy, and Norah offers the moral support, supervision, and occasional grunts of approval. Thanks to SDP for bringing Norah into my life and making accessibility a priority! #accessibilityalways

Blaine and Norah